Interview with "The Problem"

We’ve all seen the Talk Shows that give a whole 60 minutes to the topic of cheating spouses or the mistress – and not even a full 60 minutes if you consider the commercials. However, 60 minutes doesn’t come close to the time needed to delve into the real, underlying and devastating damage that adultery…

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All I Wanted…

All I wanted was to be picked up off the floor where I had fallen in a heap of deep despair.  To be gathered in his arms of apology, and sense a bit of self-loathing that would speak to my soul to assure it he would rectify the damage he caused my spirit. All I…

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Book Excerpts from “Woman to Woman: Letters from Wives to Mistresses”

“Having been categorized as having a very high-risk pregnancy, I had to visit my Doctor very often.  In my previous pregnancies, I had never carried any of the babies long enough to even see their heartbeat.  This pregnancy though seemed to be the one.  I felt healthy physically, but I was cognizant of the fact…

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Book Excerpt: Letter from a Mistress to a Wife

… I want you to know how good my life is with your husband.  I couldn’t care less about you or this Author’s attempt at bonding women.  I don’t feel bad, or guilty, and just so you know, I’m not going anywhere. … The only reason he hasn’t divorced your ugly ass is because he…

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Maintaining a Positive Attitude During Divorce

Divorce.  Something no one who gets married wants.  It seems impossible maintaining a positive attitude during divorce.  However, it can be done.  The positive attitude doesn’t just kick in, it is something that we have to make a conscious effort to develop.  For me, the first step to maintaining a positive attitude during divorce, was…

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Talking with my friends about adultery.

This book delves into the broken sisterhood, the unspoken bond of loyalty that is often too easily broken when it comes to fulfilling our desires for a man, and more poignantly, a married man.

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Healing is Not Easy

I have to believe that the tears I am crying as I write my book are helping me to heal. At times I feel like I am not healing, but rather just keeping emotional wounds open. Whatever the emotional roller coaster I am on, I promise to stay honest with you, my readers, so that you will know I am keeping it real.

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Sooner Rather Than Later

Hello everyone! Just wanted to take another moment to thank you all for your support while I go on this exciting book-writing adventure. I am changing the title of my book from “Woman to Woman,” to “Legs Wide Open,” or “With Legs Wide Open.” I am trying to narrow down sub-titles, a couple of potentials…

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Book Excerpt: Letter From a Wife to a Mistress

I can’t wrap my brain around the fact that you wasted several years of your life chasing after a man that you had to have known you could never have…and even though I feel confident that you don’t feel the shame for any of the terrible things you did to yourself or to me and “H,” you will have to carry what you did for the rest of your life.

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