Is There Really Somebody for Everybody?

I’ve heard the saying “there’s somebody for everybody” almost my entire life. It started with my mom saying it, and then I heard it peppered in other conversations over time. Now, I’m not a person who believes in fate or destiny. I know that goes against the grain for many. With the onslaught of countless…

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A Perfect Example of Girl Code…Broken

Welcome back my loyal readers! 2020 was quite a year, to say the least. In the midst of the global pandemic, political tensions and economic crises, we as individuals have seen those strains reflected in our relationships and families. Because of this, we must keep working on our personal relationships alongside the big picture world…

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“Woman to Woman”: National Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month

The only moments of joy I had over the weeks were at my OBGYN’s office. He told me everything in my pregnancy was going as it should. I’ll never forget the ultrasound where I finally saw my baby’s heartbeat. It was flickering on the screen like a little twinkling star. I left that appointment with…

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Interview w/a Betrayed Wife: Homewrecker Hypocrisy – The conclusion

Wow! So many of you enjoyed my interview with Jayla. I thank all of you for engaging by visiting this site to read that interview and others. Please be sure to subscribe while you’re here today so you don’t miss the other great things I’m working on just for you. My interview with Jayla ended…

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Interview w/a Betrayed Wife: Homewrecker Hypocrisy

Hello loyal readers! I hope all of you are staying safe and that you and your loved ones are well. Thank you for your continued support. The wife, Jayla, from this interview, reached out to me and was kind enough to do an interview for us. Some think adultery is an old topic with not…

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Backstabber: A Real-life Letter from a Wife to a Mistress

To my husband’s “other”: I can’t even finish that greeting and call you a woman, because that’s a title for women who have respect for other women. It’s fitting to leave you as just the “other” because that’s what you were and what you’ll always be…the “other.” No man will ever make you his number…

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Our Sisterhood Suffers Another Silencing

All of 115-pounds, our sister would find herself in a domestic violence situation where her 6’4″, 410-pound boyfriend beat her into a coma. Her name was LaQuanta Jones. We called her “Kizzy.” Kizzy was a teenager when we first met. First impressions were not so good as I saw her as a bit of a…

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The Truth of The Matter Is

“I Broke My Own Heart” Time is going by so quickly, and the truth of the matter is it has been many years since the demise of my marriage. I told you all before that one of the things I hoped to accomplish while writing my memoir was the healing of my shattered heart. The…

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I’m NOT Dear Abbey…But I’ll Do My Best

A “Best Friend’s” Ultimate Betrayal So, I never considered that people would send ME their problems wanting my answers or input, because I’m NOT dear Abbey…but I’ll do my best. I mean, yes I get feedback and comments through this blog and plenty on Facebook but this is the first time someone has specifically asked…

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A Man Who Gets It

Sorry for the delay my wonderful readers! Your girl was really put through the ringer over the last couple of weeks, from fracturing my toe to a terrible bout of bronchitis all at the same time. I’m on the mend from the bronchitis, and am all splinted (and medicated) up for my fracture. I had…

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