Our Sisterhood Suffers Another Silencing

All of 115-pounds, our sister would find herself in a domestic violence situation where her 6’4″, 410-pound boyfriend beat her into a coma. Her name was LaQuanta Jones. We called her “Kizzy.” Kizzy was a teenager when we first met. First impressions were not so good as I saw her as a bit of a…

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I’m NOT Dear Abbey…But I’ll Do My Best

A “Best Friend’s” Ultimate Betrayal So, I never considered that people would send ME their problems wanting my answers or input, because I’m NOT dear Abbey…but I’ll do my best. I mean, yes I get feedback and comments through this blog and plenty on Facebook but this is the first time someone has specifically asked…

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A Man Who Gets It

Sorry for the delay my wonderful readers! Your girl was really put through the ringer over the last couple of weeks, from fracturing my toe to a terrible bout of bronchitis all at the same time. I’m on the mend from the bronchitis, and am all splinted (and medicated) up for my fracture. I had…

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“The Remains of Lost Memories” – Supporting Alzheimer Research

Hello my loyal and wonderful supporters. I want to thank each of you for all the kind and gracious support you have offered me on this journey. Over the past few months I have been inundated with requests for me to share more of myself on this blog site, outside of my upcoming book “Woman…

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Interview with “The Problem”

We’ve all seen the Talk Shows that give a whole 60 minutes to the topic of cheating spouses or the mistress – and not even a full 60 minutes if you consider the commercials. However, 60 minutes doesn’t come close to the time needed to delve into the real, underlying and devastating damage that adultery…

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Interview with True Heartache – The Conclusion

In this weeks interview with true heartache – the conclusion, we’ll pick up where I asked Lyla how she was feeling about women in general after discovering her husband’s affair. If you missed part 1 of this interview, you have to go back and read it to fully appreciate the pain and honesty of this…

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Interview with True Heartache – Part 1

Hello loyal family and friends! I hope you all are ready for this Interview with True Heartache – Part 1. This wife, Lyla, is the most intense interview to date. She is forthcoming, honest and raw, as she only recently found out the devastating news that her husband was having an affair. She doesn’t hold…

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Book Excerpt from “Woman to Woman”

“Who run the world? Girls!” When that monster hit jammed the airways, I’m certain I was only one of millions of women all over the globe who felt something primal awaken inside: a sense of power, a sense of pride, maybe even a little arrogance. That song made us stand a little taller and put…

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A Letter from a Wife to a Mistress

To the Whore, This is Jason’s wife and you know who I am bit**! I knew what you were doing when you were pretending to try and be my friend. I could sense the whore in you from day one! I am so beyond angry at you AND my husband for this betrayal. When you…

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A Letter from a Mistress to a wife

This is a letter from a mistress to a wife I received, among many, that came in after I had already made my final selections. I hope you all will share your feelings about what this woman had to say on the subject of adultery, and being “the other woman.” Anonymous Wife: Let me just…

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