This is one of the letter’s I received from a real-life mistress written to a wife. It’s one of the letter’s not chosen for the book’s final print, so I have shared it with you in its entirety. I cannot wait to get your feedback on this letter, and my commentary. Get ready, here’s a “Letter from a Mistress to a Wife.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To Anonymous Wife<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n What a way to let you know that your marriage isn\u2019t real and that your husband is in love with me. He\u2019s going to leave you because you have never given him what he truly needs. He tells me everything including how cold, detached and pathetic you are. He told me he only married you and stays with you because of the kids. Oh yea, and because you guilt him with your suicide threats. How sick is that? Why do you think any man would want to be with someone like that? Why can\u2019t you just accept that it\u2019s over and let him go? Don\u2019t you think you both deserve to be happy? I make him my first priority, and outside of checking to make sure his kids are ok, and that you haven\u2019t slashed your wrist on any given day, I\u2019m his priority. If it helps at all, I didn\u2019t know he was married at first. I didn\u2019t find out until after I had already fallen in love with him, and now, unlike you, I\u2019ll do anything to make sure he\u2019s happy and stays that way. I know this letter makes me sound like a coldhearted B**** but I\u2019m not. I\u2019m just sick of women like you, and this Author, blaming other women because you can\u2019t hold on to your husbands. It\u2019s not my fault that your marriage hasn\u2019t worked since the day you said, \u201cI do.\u201d It\u2019s not my fault that you haven\u2019t had sex with each other in years. It\u2019s not my fault you had kids to try and hold on to a man who told you he wasn\u2019t happy even before you had them. It\u2019s not my fault you didn\u2019t do everything in your power to hold on to a wonderful man. And it\u2019s certainly not my fault that you\u2019re about to be divorced. The two of you chose not to make your marriage last forever. I\u2019m just the woman he found who finally makes him happy and shows him what a real relationship is like. So before you and this writer lady point your finger at anyone else, you both need to take a good hard look in the mirror and accept responsibility for what you did to ruin your marriages. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Signed,<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Not My Fault<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n This letter\nshows exactly why I had to write this book. \nThis \u201cwoman\u201d has shown a complete lack of empathy for another\nwoman. While suicide is not a game to be\nused to manipulate others, this lady, nor any of us knows what this wife\u2019s\nmental state is; she may not be using it to make her husband stay married to\nher. Speaking for myself, and many of\nthe other wives who wrote to me, the thoughts, and even the attempts of\nsuicide, have absolutely nothing to do with trying to keep our husband\u2019s at\nhome. That dark place comes because the\npain we\u2019re enduring is absolutely unbearable at times. Waking up to sadness, going through the day\nin sadness, and ending each day utterly wrecked inside are the reasons for those\ntypes of thoughts and feelings. So, for\nthis woman, really anyone, to mock and downplay the seriousness of that state\nof mind, is sad and quite frankly disgusting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is yet\nanother woman full of herself because a cheater has told her what she needs to\nhear, so he can play both sides against the middle. The actual thing that is sad is that women\nstill fall for the words of someone who is clearly showing they are dishonest, and\nhas no respect for either woman. Ladies,\na cheater does not go from being a consummate liar to his wife, to being Honest\nAbe with you! Allow me to also set the\nrecord straight. Wives understand, and\ndon\u2019t have a problem with women who get involved with their husband if they\ndidn\u2019t know he was married. We do have a\nproblem with the women who find out, and instead of doing the right thing and\nbreaking it off, justify their decision for staying with him, thereby making a\nconscious decision to make themselves complicit in the destruction of a family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n While many\nagree with me that loyalty is what\u2019s lacking in the female community, many don\u2019t.\n I truly believe that if we were more\nloyal to one another, these types of discussions would be moot. We would look out for each other, even\nprotect each other from unnecessary heartache. \nWhile it is not our responsibility to ensure each other\u2019s marriages don\u2019t\ngo off the rails, I do believe that adultery would barely be an issue if we had\nthe utmost respect for one another. If\nwe would just put ourselves in each other\u2019s shoes, a book like \u201cWoman to Woman\u201d\nwouldn\u2019t even be necessary. Alas, here\nwe are, in a sad state of disconnect, where some women have become just as selfish,\nand self-centered as the philanderer\u2019s themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n My sisters,\nif we don\u2019t look out for each other then all is lost. We are the force behind, inside, next to, and\nin front of all good things that happen in the world. However, with the continuing decline in good\nmorals, and with more and more women unashamedly doing all they can to best\nother women at any cost (for no real prize mind you), all good things will come\nto end. Unless we strengthen the bonds\nof our sisterhood by establishing, and exercising true loyalty towards one another\nin our daily connections, the power we wield as women will soon be gone. I\u2019ve said it before, and after reading that letter,\nI\u2019ll say it again\u2026loyalty is key.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I welcome your\nfeedback and comments on this, or any of my other posts. Please be sure and read some of the real-life\nletters from other wives and mistresses in previous blogs. They are excerpts from my upcoming book,\n\u201cWoman to Woman: Letters from Wives to Mistresses.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019ve\nenjoyed what you\u2019ve read here, or in any of my other posts, please subscribe to\nthis once-a-week blog. Thank you for your\nsupport.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" This is one of the letter’s I received from a real-life mistress written to a wife. It’s one of the letter’s not chosen for the book’s final print, so I have shared it with you in its entirety. I cannot wait to get your feedback on this letter, and my commentary. 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